The thing I miss the most...

...about being in a (good) relationship:

Having that one someone who knows exactly and instinctively how to respond...to in-jokes, to melt-downs, to that subtle look, to a hug held too long, or to a reluctance to touch, to the need to be close, quiet, loud, or silly. Just that knowing: what to give back, how much to take, and what to do with it.

I'm not romanticizing. I have had this before and it is definitely what I miss the most.