In the bizarre world that is my life... an Ex has unexpected reappeared. It seems I have conjured him, since I did actually mention his name to someone yesterday.

But what is the etiquette when someone you've not spoken to in some odd ten months or so, almost a year in fact, suddenly reappears? (I might add that this was not a bad break up, simply one that resulted from our refusal to live in the same time zone... or more precisely my refusal to stay in my previous one) But in the strangeness of the "do we or don't we" of the staying in touch debate...we simply stopped.

And now here he is again. Simply: "hello, how are ya, I've been in Europe..."

He's been in Europe.

Of course he has.